Chinthu chofunika kwambiri pa moyo wa mayi: ana ake
M’dziko la zinthu zakuthupi zolemera ndiponso zokonda kusintha nthawi zonse, chuma chamtengo wapatali kwambiri cha mayi ndi iye.mwana. Ubale wakuya umenewu umadutsa malire a chuma, udindo, ndi zoyembekeza za anthu ndipo umaphatikizapo chikondi chopanda malire, chosintha. Pamene tikukondwerera chiyambi cha kukhala mayi, m’pofunika kuzindikira njira zambirimbiri zimene mwana amalemeretsa moyo wa mayi.
Kuyambira nthawi yomwe mayi ali ndi pakati, moyo wa mayi umasinthidwa mosasinthika. Kuyembekezera moyo watsopano kumabweretsa chisangalalo, chiyembekezo, ndi cholinga. Mwana wake akamakula, chikondi cha mayi chimasinthanso, chimayamba chifukwa chosagona tulo, masitepe oyambirira, ndi zochitika zosawerengeka. Mphindi iliyonse ya kulera ndi kutsogolera mwana ndi umboni wa mphamvu ndi kupirira kwa amayi.
Kafukufuku waposachedwapa akusonyeza kuti mgwirizano wa amayi ndi anawo umakhudza kwambiri moyo wa onse awiri. Ana amapatsa amayi mwayi wodziŵika kuti ndi ndani ndiponso kuti achita zinthu zinazake, ndipo nthaŵi zambiri amawasonkhezera kukwaniritsa zolinga zawo. Pochita zimenezi, amayi amalimbikitsa makhalidwe abwino, nzeru, ndi chikondi zimene zimaumba mbadwo wotsatira. Ubale wobwereza uwu ndi chuma chomwe sitingathe kuwerengera.
Kuphatikiza apo, zovuta zomwe amayi amakumana nazo, kuyambira pakulinganiza ntchito ndi banja mpaka kuthana ndi zovuta za kulera, zimangokulitsa ubalewu. Amayi kaŵirikaŵiri amadzipeza akukhala ochirikiza ana awo, kumenyera ufulu wawo ndi ubwino wawo m’dziko lankhanza ndi losakhululuka.
Pamene tikulingalira za kufunika kwa ubalewu, ndikofunikira kukondwerera ndi kuthandiza amayi padziko lonse lapansi. Kudzipereka kwawo ndi kudzipereka kwawo ndi maziko omwe mibadwo yamtsogolo imakulirakulira. Potsirizira pake, choloŵa chofunika koposa cha amayi si chuma chakuthupi, koma kuseka, chikondi, ndi choloŵa cha ana ake.
Nthawi yotumiza: Dec-31-2024